Rene – Interview 15  

Rene – Interview 15

Age at Interview: 84
Sex: Female
Background: Rene is a retired typist. She is widowed and has three grown-up children. Ethnic background: White British.

Brief outline:Rene was invited to attend screening for unrecognised heart valve disease in early 2011. She already knew that she had a heart valve problem and was unsurprised when a further problem was discovered. We spoke to her once after she had been to both the initial and follow-up appointments.

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Rene already knew she had a problem with her mitral valve; the screening showed a problem with the aortic valve too, but it is not serious. Rene says at 84 “you count your blessings”.

 



And then did she tell you your results that day?
 
She said there was no problems much. She said that I knew that I had the – I’ve forgotten the name of the valve.
 
Was it the aorta?
 
The, not the aorta, it was the other one that I’ve known for years, that [my doctor] found that...
 
The mitral?
 
The mitral valve was a slight leak, not anything serious. And she said the aorta, there was a little bit of stickiness there or something. But she said, “There’s nothing to worry about”. I said, “Will I be able to go to my 90th party?” [laughs].
 
I’m sure she said yes [laughs].
 
She did. She said, “I think you’ve got a pretty good chance”.
 
And when she told you that you had the problem with the aorta valve, did it worry you?
 
No.
 
No?
 
No. No, 84, you just, you count your blessings [laughs]. Each day is a bonus.
 
OK. So she told you about this problem...
 
She was very gentle the way she said it. She said, “There is a slight thing,” she said, “There’s nothing to worry about.”
 
And did you find that reassuring that she was telling you...
 
Oh yes...
 
.. it’s nothing to worry about?
 
Yes. She was very reassuring. Wonderful, couldn’t have been nicer.
 
And so now that you know that you have that problem how do you feel?
 

I’ve just accepted it. Because quite honestly I can’t do what I’m used to but as my daughter reminded me this morning, “Mother, you are 84.” [Laughs] And that I’ve got eight grandchildren that always want, all want me to do things with them. They always say, “Come on, Nan, you can do it.” [Laughs]. 

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