He said that, he said exactly that - that they didn’t know and they were looking and the research was purely to see whether the two weeks was better than the every three weeks. I think he might have said actually indications are showing that the two weeks is better, but again because I didn’t know, you don’t know what questions to ask initially, and I’m just sitting there like a nodding dog nodding at everything he says, saying, “Yeah, yeah, clinical trial, that’s fine. I’ll sign it.” And I guess that’s why they say you can go away and think about it. But I don’t, I just, there’s questions that I want to ask now that I’m further into it and perhaps feel a bit more confident. Because when you’re first diagnosed, you just want it gone and just say, “Just start. Whatever you need to do, just do it now and get it gone.” But now, I wouldn’t say I was completely casual about it, but I’m bit more relaxed and a bit more confident and want to ask, ask some questions about it to see what they mean about lifespan, or whether it’s relapse, or what, what it is.

 

 

There is. There’s a Macmillan nurse there who I’ve got her direct line and I can just leave a message and she’ll call me back, and that’s no problem at all.

 

But I don’t feel I’ve got anything urgent enough to phone in between appointments, but I know she’s there. And I mean I have phoned if there has been something. I had an infection and that was very quick, and you phone the on-call haematologist and they just have you straight in to deal with it. But apart from infection, it can wait. It’s really not a problem. And she’s always about and she’s happy to talk. 

I think my appointment was probably about ten days after diagnosis. And it was at that time my husband and I went up to the oncology and they brought it up then and he just did a diagram for us and told us what was involved. And there again, I thought, “Oh, two weeks, that sounds good.” [laughs] But this actually finishes at the beginning of September.

 

 

Yeah. It was, you know, like I say I didn’t have to decide whether to have one particular treatment compared to another. It was just a timing thing, and it seemed, you know, it didn’t seem like a huge thing. I’m having the same treatment, and I’m responding well to it and I think that’s - so I didn’t feel that I had, you know, had to come home and mull it over or think about it or anything like that.

 

 

Yeah, yeah.

 

 

Well, I told them I wanted the two week one but he said, “Well, it just goes into a hat so we have no control over that at all.” And then the research nurse phoned in the afternoon and said, “Unfortunately, it’s three weeks.” I said, “Oh okay, never mind.” And I was really quite upset about it, because I really thought, you know, my stepdaughter’s getting married in August and I thought, “Well, it would just be nice to get it all done.” But a lot of people have since said, you know, I know a lot of people in the NHS and they’ve said, “Actually, it can be quite gruelling.” But I’ve responded so well I don’t think it would have been for me, but anyway, it doesn’t matter, and I am on the three-week one and I’m completely reconciled with that now. So it’s not a problem.

 

 

Well, research, I just think it’s so important, and they’ve already done the trial in Germany and it’s showing that the every two weeks is, is perhaps better.

 

Well, my cousin’s husband has got MS and it’s very, very progressed now. But I know he’s been on, he was on a clinical trial and he was on a placebo, and I think he was really miffed about that [laughs].

 

 

Yeah.

 

 

Yes, it would. It would. I don’t think I’d like it at all, actually.

 

Yes.

 

 

Yes, definitely, definitely. Especially if cancer is involved. I think that, I think that’s an issue as well. If it was to test in-growing toenail creams or something like that then, you know, or something - I mean it’s very painful but, you know, something that wasn’t life threatening. But as soon as somebody says, “Cancer” it changes everything. You just, it’s like having an intruder in your house, you just want it gone and out and finished with, and I just want to get on and not have it. I mean, I’m not in a state of complete panic or anything like that. I have complete confidence that this will sort it out and it’ll be gone. But then again there’s so many different types of cancer, and I know some people are on this ‘watch and wait’, so maybe, maybe that would be different. 

Well, that was on the morning of my operation. I went in the night before. It was a little bit more vague, because it was just, the ward was hotter than Hades, it was just so hot. And I hadn’t slept well and the bed was uncomfortable. And they’d said, “You mustn’t have anything to eat or drink after midnight.” And then in the morning it turned out I was third on the list, so they said it would be about half one by the time I had the operation [laughs]. Then the breakfast trolley came round and I thought, “Oh God.”

 

And I had a headache. And then she, the, I think she was a registrar anaesthetist suddenly appeared and said that they were doing a clinical trial on a new device to, it was a camera to put down your throat to see whether, the improvement in sore throats afterwards. And also it gave them a better view of the larynx. And so I quickly read through it and said, “Oh yes, that’s fine.” Because I thought, “Well, if I’m under an anaesthetic anyway, frankly I don’t really mind.” And if it’s something that gives them a better view of everything, then if there was any problems anywhere they would, they would be able to pick it up. So again it wasn’t a huge decision to make. But she did go through it all and there’d already been a study in Pakistan and Gloucester [laughs], which seemed odd, but yes, and she said that it, she’d, so far it seemed that things were improving. But it just seemed such a minor thing that frankly I didn’t mind at all.

 

 

I think, I think that was fine for what it was. If it had been something, you know, more, that I felt would have had more of an impact than that. But like I say, if you’re under anaesthetic anyway it can’t be that different to what they’re already doing. They’ve already done it on eight hundred people so, yes, it was fine. And then she came after the operation when I was just coming round and said, “How’s your throat? Is it sore?” And it wasn’t sore, so that was it.

 

 

Yes.

 

 

Because they said it gives them an improved view of the larynx and the throat and that type of thing.

 

 

I don’t think so, no. I think it is just a new piece of equipment that they’re trying out.

I guess so from a, a money point of view I know these drugs are hugely expensive and if we continue the NHS as we want it to continue, you know, any savings that can be made on these thousands and thousand of pounds into new breast cancer drugs and all sort of things, I think that’s only a good thing. And the less time you have to be on chemotherapy and go through this, because it is like putting your life on hold for six months and then it, you know, going back to work, how you’re going to feel afterwards, you know. So the less time you spend doing all of that I think would be fantastic.