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Child aged 4-5
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Interview CH17
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Describe the emotions they had before their son's operation.
Their son was diagnosed with a ventricular septal defect (VSD). Treatment: surgery to close hole and repair leaky valve at 3½ years old. No further treatment planned. Current medication: none.
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Explains how they made a decision to take their baby off the ventilator.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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They chose not to have a post mortem after their baby died and they felt supported by the hospital in their decision.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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It had been important as parents to have control over what happened when their baby died in hospital.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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The family spent several hours in a private room with her son when he died in hospital, which had been a very important time for them.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes the practicalities in the hospital after her son died and the support given by her local chapel of rest in dealing with the arrangements.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes her son's funeral in church which she tried to keep lighthearted.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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She describes how people reacted towards her after her son's death and says that it was important that people continued to talk to her about Luke.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Describes how women she had known when she was pregnant did not know how to talk to her after her baby had died.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Explains that they don't regret the decision they made to keep trying with different operations in the hope that her baby would get better.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Reflects that she didn't blame the surgeon when her child died after surgery but is thankful to him for giving her nearly six years with her son.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Explains how family, friends and acquaintances have been affected by her son's death.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Describes the impact Noah's death had on his grandparents when subsequent children were born in the family.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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She had emailed other bereaved parents through the Compassionate Friends website, which had helped her to feel less alone.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Describes her baby's funeral at a woodland burial site and explains that at his funeral they were able to talk about Noah to friends and family who ha
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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She arranged for her son to be brought home twenty four hours before his funeral which helped her and other family and friends to say goodbye to him.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes her experience of a Coroner's post mortem and comments that although she was upset at the time she is pleased they did it because it answere
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes her experience of a Coroner's Inquest in to her son's death.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Her GP had talked through and explained the pathologists report with her following her son's post mortem.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged 1-3
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Interview CH08
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Explains that finding out at 20 weeks that her baby had a serious defect she didn't feel able to plan for his birth or the future until he was about t
Daniel was diagnosed with Tricuspid Atresia, Hypoplastic Right Ventricle, VSD and Transposition of the Great Arteries. Treatment: cardiac catheter at 24 hrs old, banding operation at 2 weeks old, followed by 1st stage Fontan at 10 months old. Further catheters and surgery planned. Current medication: warfarin.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes how her son's school reacted when he died.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH25
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Explains that it is difficult to get the right balance in letting her son who has hypertrophic cardiomyopathy lead a normal life but not put himself a
Andre was diagnosed with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy at 3 months old. Treatment: he takes Verapamil and has to limit his physical activities. He has annual check ups. Her 6 month old daughter has a VSD, diagnosed when she was 3 months old. It is expected that the hole will close on it's own, without the need for treatment.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Describes being upset that because her baby had died people did not acknowledge that she had experienced being a mother.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged under 1
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Interview CH28
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Describes problem when attending antenatal classes during her second pregnancy after her first child had died from congenital heart disease.
Noah (2000-2001) was diagnosed with critical aortic stenosis at 12 hours old. He died aged 4 and a half months old following three operations to try to repair his heart. Noah spent 4 and a half months in intensive care.
Heart disease
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Parents of children with congenital heart disease
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Child aged over 5
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Interview CH19
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Describes using the Child Death Help Line.
Luke (1996-2002) was diagnosed with coarctation of the aorta, transposition of the great arteries, VSD, pulmonary stenosis and double inlet left ventricle. He died when he was nearly 6 yrs old after his fourth operation (not including cardiac catheters). He had epilepsy and asthma and was quite ill at times. Medication: warfarin, medicines for asthma and epilepsy, diuretics after operations. Family live 15 miles from the specialist hospital.
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