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Interview 13

Interview 13

Age at Interview: 39
Sex: Male
Age at Diagnosis: 28
Background: A single gay man born in South America who immigrated to the UK 15 years ago and now considers himself British. His viral load 300.

Brief outline:He currently takes 4 antivirals (AZT, atazanavir, ritonavir, tenofovir) after suffering severe side effects from other combinations. His viral load was low and he attributes his good health to taking responsibility for his own wellbeing.

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Drawing from his 10 years of experience, he summarises his advice about the life 'journey' for people living with HIV.
Print Be strong. In all the times I get most emotional about life, it's not when I'm having a painful day or a painful moment. It's when I'm really having fun. I'm laughing or I'm dancing. And then I realise that's life. And then I get very emotional and I might lose it one day. But it's a journey. It's a journey. The end could be tomorrow. Could be 20 years time. Try to get rid of the fear. Life with fear is the biggest waste of time kind of thing you can have. Get rid of the ghost. Embrace today. Live today for tomorrow. I'm not saying getting drunk. It's a choice. It's a lifestyle. You have to eat. Contemplate what you are eating. You have to exercise, you know? Surround yourself with beautiful things. Have that long bath.

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