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Pregnancy
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Age 37-39
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Interview 06
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Men may find it difficult when their partner is having fertility treatment, and it can strain the couple's relationship.
First pregnancy through ICSI IVF. Experienced hyper ovarian stimulation. Induced at 42 weeks with birth by emergency section. Second pregnancy occurred naturally 7 months after birth of first child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Aged 24 & under
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Interview 07
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She found it easier than expected to adapt to being a parent and changing her lifestyle. (Read by an actor.)
Unplanned pregnancy after graduating from university. Supported by partner but felt a lack of institutional support for young, unmarried women. Looking forward to balancing motherhood with a career.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 08
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She was worried how they would feel about the baby after birth but they both adored her straight away. (Read by an actor.)
Initial miscarriage followed by second pregnancy, when a scan revealed baby was affected by tuberous sclerosis. Late termination. Subsequent pregnancy by donor insemination led to birth of a healthy child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 08
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After a termination for an inherited genetic condition, they considered adoption but decided to have anonymous donor insemination. (Read by an actor.)
Initial miscarriage followed by second pregnancy, when a scan revealed baby was affected by tuberous sclerosis. Late termination. Subsequent pregnancy by donor insemination led to birth of a healthy child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 08
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Reading a lot about donor insemination helped her to accept the idea. She wanted her husband to feel it was a positive step for them. (Read by an acto
Initial miscarriage followed by second pregnancy, when a scan revealed baby was affected by tuberous sclerosis. Late termination. Subsequent pregnancy by donor insemination led to birth of a healthy child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 08
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When they discovered the baby had a serious genetic condition, they considered continuing the pregnancy but then had a termination. (Read by an actor.
Initial miscarriage followed by second pregnancy, when a scan revealed baby was affected by tuberous sclerosis. Late termination. Subsequent pregnancy by donor insemination led to birth of a healthy child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 08
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It was hard leaving hospital after the termination and seeing other people with babies. She felt like a bad mother. (Read by an actor.)
Initial miscarriage followed by second pregnancy, when a scan revealed baby was affected by tuberous sclerosis. Late termination. Subsequent pregnancy by donor insemination led to birth of a healthy child.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Aged 40 +
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Interview 09
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She felt less interested in sex during pregnancy, partly because she was worried about miscarriage. Women should not feel guilty about this.
First pregnancy normal, emergency caesarean after long labour. Next two pregnancies ended in early miscarriage. Now pregnant again and planning vaginal birth. (Interviewed again after vaginal birth).
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Aged 40 +
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Interview 09
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After a long, tiring labour, she felt calm and relieved making the decision to have a caesarean.
First pregnancy normal, emergency caesarean after long labour. Next two pregnancies ended in early miscarriage. Now pregnant again and planning vaginal birth. (Interviewed again after vaginal birth).
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 28
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They felt strongly that adoption could be a good option for them, and might consider it again in future.
Supported partner through fertility treatment and pregnancy. Is looking forward to becoming a father.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 31-33
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Interview 12
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A group of colleagues were having children around the same time. He suddenly felt more grown-up.
Normal first pregnancy. Premature labour and birth at 33 weeks. Had to transfer to another hospital because no neonatal intensive care places were available locally.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Aged 24 & under
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Interview 13
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She split up from her partner when she got pregnant, because she could not cope with him as well as the baby. (Played by an actor.)
Young, single mother. Pregnancy unplanned. Well supported by family. Had Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (pelvic pain) and cholestasis (liver problem) during pregnancy.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 25-30
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Interview 46
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She started bleeding while on holiday and phoned her GP. There was nothing she could do so she continued her holiday.
Two normal pregnancies; some bleeding early in second pregnancy. First labour was very long and painful, and ended with a forceps delivery. Epidural for pain relief. More of this interview can be seen on the Healthtalkonline antenatal screening site as Interview 09.
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Pregnancy
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Age 25-30
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Interview 46
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She had a forceps birth after a long and exhausting labour. She was surprised she let staff make decisions for her but she trusted them.
Two normal pregnancies; some bleeding early in second pregnancy. First labour was very long and painful, and ended with a forceps delivery. Epidural for pain relief. More of this interview can be seen on the Healthtalkonline antenatal screening site as Interview 09.
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Pregnancy
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Age 31-33
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Interview 15
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She was unprepared for the strength of her love for the baby. Parenthood has enriched their lives.
Confusion in early stages of pregnancy about whether or not it was viable. Unexplained abdominal pain. Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction (pelvic pain) in latter stages.
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Pregnancy
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Age 25-30
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Interview 20
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Pregnant women want a safe, supportive environment for their baby. Pregnancy made her think again about her relationship. (Read by an actor.)
Single mother. First pregnancy miscarried. Second pregnancy was normal and straightforward. She planned to have a natural birth, but after a long labour chose to have a caesarean.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 25-30
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Interview 20
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Mothers may challenge their partner's behaviour and lifestyle. Some men may find the pressure and responsibility too much. (Read by an actor.)
Single mother. First pregnancy miscarried. Second pregnancy was normal and straightforward. She planned to have a natural birth, but after a long labour chose to have a caesarean.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 28
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It is important for him to reassure his wife that she is definitely still attractive.
Supported partner through fertility treatment and pregnancy. Is looking forward to becoming a father.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 28
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He is really looking forward to being a dad and playing with the baby.
Supported partner through fertility treatment and pregnancy. Is looking forward to becoming a father.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 28
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They could hardly believe the pregnancy test was positive and had to repeat it. He was so happy he did not care England had lost at football.
Supported partner through fertility treatment and pregnancy. Is looking forward to becoming a father.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 37-39
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Interview 30
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She and her husband enjoyed NHS antenatal classes, although at times they felt uncomfortable. A choice of women-only classes would be good. (Read by a
Normal first pregnancy. Found antenatal classes useful, but felt a women-only class might be useful for South Asian women. Chose to have an epidural for the birth.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 37-39
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Interview 30
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She was less interested in sex during pregnancy, but it was important to find other ways of sharing physical contact. (Read by an actor.)
Normal first pregnancy. Found antenatal classes useful, but felt a women-only class might be useful for South Asian women. Chose to have an epidural for the birth.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 37-39
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Interview 30
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The demands of caring for a small baby make them really tired, but they try to find time to go out together at weekends. (Read by an actor.)
Normal first pregnancy. Found antenatal classes useful, but felt a women-only class might be useful for South Asian women. Chose to have an epidural for the birth.
Pregnancy & children
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Pregnancy
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Age 37-39
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Interview 31
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Being parents has made them stronger as a couple. Now they know what they had been missing. (Read by an actor.)
Her first, long awaited baby was stillborn at 25 weeks. Her second pregnancy was normal, but an accident at 20 weeks made it an anxious time. Birth was induced, with epidural.
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Pregnancy
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Age 34-36
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Interview 16
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Giving birth was an awe-inspiring and emotional moment. She felt privileged to experience it.
Experienced recurrent miscarriage before entering an egg share IVF scheme. IVF was successful after one cycle and pregnancy was excellent. Vaginal birth.
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Pregnancy
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Age 25-30
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Interview 19
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Nothing had prepared her for how much parenthood would change her life, but she and her partner love it. They try to make time for each other in the e
Successful pregnancy after an early miscarriage and blighted ovum. Caesarean due to baby lying breech. Lack of support for breastfeeding in hospital due to pressures on staff.
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