Interview 29  

Interview 29

Age at Interview: 38
Background: Manager with two children aged three and four. Husband is an electrician. Ethnic background: White British.

Brief outline:1st child delivered with forceps and ventouse. Had bad tear, lost lots of blood. Planned caesarean with 2nd child 16 months later on advice of doctors. Struggled to decide how to deliver 3rd child, pessimistic about her chance of having VBAC, feels planned CS is the safer option.


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She was surprised that the consultant just asked about her preference rather than engage her in discussion. She had expected more of a two-way process.

 



And do you feel that you've had the right quality of information for you this time?

Yeah. The only thing is, at the time when the decision was actually made... the doctor that saw me - I felt that it could have… which is probably a good thing, but it wasn't particularly a discussion. It was more, “Have you thought about what you want to do?” “That's fine... I agree with that”, ...and that was sort of it. It wasn't a sort of real two way process.

So they didn't really give you enough information for you to make a really informed decision, or they didn't really discuss it?

They sort of did that afterwards. It was a bit of a... you know, literally... "What do you want to do?" And then when I said I was thinking about this [caesarean], they said, "Right, well, we'll just have to outline..." Almost as if it was read out... "This will happen", "You need to bear in mind this, that, and the other". But it was not exactly rushed but it was sort of just a sort of practiced…

All day?

Yeah. 

And what about the relevance of the information, do you feel that it was tailored enough to your own needs?

Yeah.

And the timing? Because you said before about the timing of the decision, do you think you'd have liked that earlier do you think?

I would have probably liked a chat with a doctor earlier on... but it wasn't essential. I think in a way you get a lot of pressure from family and friends as well and part of me wanted to know so that I could stop them asking me what I was going to do.

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