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Soon after the suicide :
Finding out
First reactions-shock, disbelief, despair & relief
Changing emotions-sadness, guilt & anger
Seeing the body or not being able to do so
Telling children and young people about a suicide
Other people’s reactions
Family dynamics
The press and other media involvement
Police involvement
Practical matters
The funeral, inquest, burial or cremation :
The funeral or commemoration
Burying the body or scattering or burying ashes
The headstone or other memorial
The inquest
Reactions to the verdict
Sources of help :
Informal support - Family and friends
Help and support from professionals
Self-help groups, conferences and helplines
Help from Cruse Bereavement Care
Help and information through the internet
Coping with grief and keeping memories alive
Support for children and young people
Life now and a message to others :
Adjusting to life without the person who died
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Messages to others who have been bereaved
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Alex - Interview 3
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After Alice died Alex did not seek counselling. He spent time talking to close friends rather than looking for external support. He also supported oth
Felicity and Alex had a daughter, Alice, who diagnosed with depression and then bipolar disorder. In 2004, aged 22, she killed herself. Alex felt that the role he took supporting others helped him to cope with the “fearful shock” of her suicide.
Dying & bereavement
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Brenda - Interview 12
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Friends were a great support to Brenda after her son died in intensive care. A friend also helped her husband. They did not want professional counsell
In 2005 Brenda’s 21-year-old son sadly died in ICU. He had been depressed for some time and had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Now Brenda focuses as much as she can on remembering the good memories they all shared as a family.
Dying & bereavement
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Maurice - Interview 14
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After Tom died Maurice and Jane supported each other. Maurice found he could talk to colleagues at work about what had happened. He did not want forma
In 1984 Maurice and Jane’s son Tom took his own life by hanging. Jane and Maurice were shocked and devastated. Maurice found most support from friends and colleagues. The local vicar has also been helpful.
Dying & bereavement
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Stephen - Interview 31
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Family and friends offered tremendous support after Stephen’s wife died. He found it helped to talk about what had happened. He was relieved he could
In June 2006 Stephen returned home to find his wife, Gill, hanging in the hallway. She had been diagnosed with severe depression. Stephen found help from family, friends & Cruse. His daughters have been helped by the Charity, See Saw.
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