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Ann - Interview 10

Ann - Interview 10

Age at Interview: 60
Sex: Female
Background: Ann is a literacy consultant. She is single. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

Brief outline:Ann’s friend died in 2003. It appears that her friend died from an overdose and exposure. Ann has found support through her faith in God, from counselling & from her GP. She has set up a support group for others, linked to SOBS. She finds this comforting.

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Ann’s friend had chronic fatigue syndrome. Doctors said they were unable to help her and she felt she was becoming a burden.
Print At the time that she died was she having any contact with health professionals at that time? No, no. And mainly because we had, you know, seen sort of the top people to do with chronic fatigue syndrome. And they’d said there was, you know, they were very sorry; even in a letter from the specialist saying you know he was really sorry but at the moment in time there was nothing you know that they could do to offer any help. Hmm. And also she had some; the antidepressants drugs are quite suitable for you know chronic fatigue syndrome. And she had tried those previously but they actually made her worse. Oh. So there hadn’t been any foreseeable solution to her difficulty. And she certainly felt that she was becoming a burden, and that I was having to do everything. And you know if somebody perceives it like that, you know, I just thought well, some days she’s good, some days she’s bad and we just go with it. Hmm. But she actually couldn’t deal with that.

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