My name is Darren and i am telling my story so far of how its been for me over the past week, my wife rebecca was feeling very poorly withy flu and i was trying to look after her and the three kids aged 7 months, 2 years and 3 years, i started to get worried at the point where she would no longer go to the toilet upstairs and she asked for the childs potty she also started to see things on the living room ceiling. i then rung the 999 after she was struggling to breath properly, becky was taken in and put on oxegen, i had to come home to bring the children back home, i had a phone call to say becky had taken a tunr for the worse and was put asleep so that they could put a breathing machine on her, i went into the hospital and have been very distressed over it so far, becky has been stable for 6 days now with no signs of going backwards, the inlaw family have shown me no support for what i am going through and this has not helped. my love for my wife has grown alot stronger which i didnt think i could love her anymore than this but it has.i spend hours next to her bedside even tho she has been asleep for all this time, she developed pnemonia and she has little asthma, i have spent days in tears with due to being on my own in our home. i hope and pray she is fine and i will keep this forum updated becky has recieved tamiflu and is still getting it and antibiotics