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Rachel - Interview 40
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Rachel’s son died overseas in a bomb explosion. She could identify him from tattoos and his passport photograph. She also saw his body.
Rachel’s son, Dave, served in the Paras before he joined a security company. In 2006 he was working in Iraq when he was killed by a bomb. Rachel was devastated. She has had counselling which has helped, but at times finds it hard to get on with her life.
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Rosemary - Interview 25
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After a mass disaster Rosemary says that the police must remember that individuals are involved. She thinks that a coroner should send a family the po
Rosemary’s son, James, was killed in the 7th July bomb attack in London in 2005. The family was devastated. Rosemary found help via family, friends, and colleagues, and through a vicar and a psychotherapist, and by creating wonderful memorials for her son.
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Linda - Interview 15
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Linda was allowed to see Kevin after a post-mortem, and was upset that she wasn’t allowed to touch him. She felt that he had become police property.
In 2007 Linda’s son, Kevin, was murdered. He was 27 years old. He was stabbed and died 5 hours later. It was a terrific shock to all the family. Linda misses Kevin tremendously but her spiritual beliefs have helped her cope with her grief.
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Ann - Interview 24
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Ann was allowed to see her son’s body after about 24 hours, but was only allowed to touch his face, not to hug him.
In 2005 Ann’s son, Westley, was murdered. He was attacked by a man with a knife. Ann and her family were devastated. Ann started the organisation KnifeCrimes.org which supports other victims of crime and which aims prevent other knife attacks.
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Ann - Interview 24
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Ann pressed the coroner to get her son’s body released. She had to wait three months, which was distressing. They had a High Church service, and then
In 2005 Ann’s son, Westley, was murdered. He was attacked by a man with a knife. Ann and her family were devastated. Ann started the organisation KnifeCrimes.org which supports other victims of crime and which aims prevent other knife attacks.
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Carole - Interview 08
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The defendant’s legal team wanted a second post-mortem. The police had to press the legal team to release Carole’s son’s body because a military funer
In November 2004 Carole’s 23 year old son was murdered by an ex-girlfriend. He was stabbed. Carole was devastated. She has found most help via family and friends and by running. She has also had counselling, arranged via work, which has helped.
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