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Lost a husband, wife or partner
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Sarah - Interview 20
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A policeman advised Sarah to prepare a statement. One of her sons gave it to journalists when they arrived on the doorstep. The press then left the fa
Sarah’s husband, Russell, died in 2006 in a road traffic collision. He was driving a bus when the driver of another vehicle pulled out suddenly, causing the incident. Sarah was devastated and still feels that her life has been shattered.
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Rosemary - Interview 25
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After the London bombing those who died were remembered in a ‘two minute silence’. Reporters photographed Rosemary’s niece while she was crying and Ro
Rosemary’s son, James, was killed in the 7th July bomb attack in London in 2005. The family was devastated. Rosemary found help via family, friends, and colleagues, and through a vicar and a psychotherapist, and by creating wonderful memorials for her son.
Dying & bereavement
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Lost a brother or a sister
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Matthew - Interview 26
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Matthew found that the press were sensationalist, selective and reported events out of context. He thinks it better to put a story in writing or to ta
Matthew’s brother, Timothy, was killed in the Bali bombing in 2002. He died instantly. His death was a terrible shock to the family. His body was brought back to the UK. Matthew is proud of the beautiful memorial that stands in London for those who died.
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Terri - Interview 19
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Journalists were intrusive and kept phoning the house. Terri’s brother emailed the local paper to complain. The paper wrote a lovely tribute to Ben bu
In 2003 Terri’s son was stabbed to death in his home. His grandmother was attacked too. Three men were involved in the attacks. Terri was away. News of her son’s death was very traumatic. Counselling, Compassionate Friends, family and friends have helped.
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