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Alison - Interview 23
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Alison has created pages on a website so that others can share memories, light candles and leave tributes to her children. Other children have also ma
In 2007 Alison’s husband and two of her young children died in their own home. Alison believes that her husband murdered her children and then set fire to the house. He also died. It has been a terrible time.
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Terri - Interview 19
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Terri found Compassionate Friends on the internet. There were no local groups but she went to yearly weekend gatherings for bereaved parents and found
In 2003 Terri’s son was stabbed to death in his home. His grandmother was attacked too. Three men were involved in the attacks. Terri was away. News of her son’s death was very traumatic. Counselling, Compassionate Friends, family and friends have helped.
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Dorothy - Interview 28
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Dorothy went to a Scottish gathering of Compassionate Friends and used their internet chat room. She found she could relate to the other members and d
In 2005 Dorothy’s son, Mark, was killed in an industrial incident. He was working in a waste and recycling plant. Dorothy was shocked and angry. Counselling, hypnotherapy and Compassionate Friends have helped.
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Michael - Interview 35
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Michael joined Families Against Corporate Killers. He found comfort from working with others to prevent work-related deaths
In 2004 Michael’s son, Lewis, was badly burnt. At the time he was working at a garage. Lewis died three days later. Michael and the other members of the family were devastated. Michael found most support from family, friends and through counselling.
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Ann - Interview 24
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Ann founded Knifecrimes.org. She goes into schools and talks to children about the consequences of carrying knives. She also supports families bereave
In 2005 Ann’s son, Westley, was murdered. He was attacked by a man with a knife. Ann and her family were devastated. Ann started the organisation KnifeCrimes.org which supports other victims of crime and which aims prevent other knife attacks.
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Terri - Interview 19
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Terri found the Winston’s Wish website for her older daughter, which helped her. Through the website her daughter made contact with two other girls wh
In 2003 Terri’s son was stabbed to death in his home. His grandmother was attacked too. Three men were involved in the attacks. Terri was away. News of her son’s death was very traumatic. Counselling, Compassionate Friends, family and friends have helped.
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