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Godfrey - Interview 39
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The inquest was a terrible experience. Godfrey and his wife expected to hear the report that had been conducted into the accident but they were told t
In 1995 Godfrey’s son was fatally injured as he tried to board a train. Godfrey was denied information about exactly what had happened. The jury at the inquest decided it was an accident. It was an awful tragedy but Godfrey still has a positive attitude.
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Godfrey - Interview 39
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Godfrey and his wife felt entitled to know more about how their son died. People should not have to fight to get information.
In 1995 Godfrey’s son was fatally injured as he tried to board a train. Godfrey was denied information about exactly what had happened. The jury at the inquest decided it was an accident. It was an awful tragedy but Godfrey still has a positive attitude.
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Dolores - Interview 34
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The liaison officer was very helpful and answered questions at any time, day or night. He was very patient when Dolores forgot what she had been told.
In September 2006 Dolores son, Tom, was fatally wounded. He was stabbed by a man who had schizophrenia. Dolores was in shock for at least a couple of months. Cranial therapy and meditation helped, but Dolores still feels very sad and depressed at times.
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Michelle - Interview 41
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The police updated Michelle weekly about the evidence they were collecting for the trial. She thought they were marvellous.
In 2005 Michelle’s mother was murdered. She was stabbed. Michelle was shocked and horrified. She has found help through friends, family, a community psychiatric nurse, a psychologist, a homeopath (privately), a medium and by writing about what happened.
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Karen - Interview 04
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After Karen’s mother died in a fire the family had an excellent liaison officer. She answered all their questions and told them what the police had re
In 2007 Karen’s mother died when her house caught fire. It is unclear how the fire started, but the coroner decided it was an accidental death. Karen was shocked by her mother’s death. She has been helped and supported by her husband and his family.
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Adam - Interview 27
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The liaison officers came regularly and kept them up to date with the murder investigation. Two officers visited the family and another kept in touch
In 2005 Adam’s brother, Lloyd, was murdered in the street. He was attacked by two men, who said that they were drunk at the time. Adam, his parents and friends were devastated. Since then Adam has worked hard to try to prevent other violent crime.
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David - Interview 31
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The liaison officers handled the case very sensitively and kept in touch after the trial. They told David and his wife what was happening to the young
In 1992, David’s son, Simon, was stabbed to death near to his home. He was 17 years old. Simon’s death had a huge effect on the family. David and his wife supported each other. They are now members of Support after Murder and Manslaughter (SAMM).
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Martin - Interview 10
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The liaison officer was cold, offhand and gave contradictory information. Martin wanted a link between himself and the authorities but questions he st
Martin’s wife had a part time job as a lollypop lady. When she was standing on the pavement, she was hit by a bus, and died instantly. Martin was shocked. He is bringing up two children, which is a heavy responsibility. Counselling has helped him.
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Cynthia - Interview 02
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Cynthia’s daughter was killed on the road. She said that bereaved relatives may have to ask questions, demand information and ask for advice.
In 2000 Cynthia’s 26 year old daughter was killed when she was knocked off her bicycle and run over by a lorry. The inquest verdict was “accidental death” and the driver was acquitted. Cynthia was devastated and now campaigns to prevent other road deaths.
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