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Shazia - Interview 01
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Shazia recalls what she saw from the street and her feelings of horror and disbelief when she heard that her best friend’s father had killed her, her
In 1993 Shazia’s friend was shot by her friend’s father because of “izzat” and honour. Shazia, then aged 13, was devastated. She has found help through counselling and by supporting others in similar situations.
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Patsy - Interview 21
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After Dorrie was shot Patsy wished she had gone to the hospital immediately. He was dead by the time she got there.
In 1999 Patsy’s son, Dorrie, was shot. He died soon afterwards. Patsy was devastated, but through her belief in Jesus, her relationship with God, her work with Mothers Against Violence and other community work she has come to terms with Dorrie’s death.
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Ian - Interview 32
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As soon as Ian heard that his brother had been shot he started to pray. Then he heard that Dorrie had died. He screamed, felt utterly shocked, and ask
In 1999 Ian’s brother, Dorrie, was shot. He died soon afterwards. Ian was deeply shocked but he supported the rest of the family and kept his faith in God. Dorrie’s death made Ian reassess his life, and live not only for himself but also for Dorrie.
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Erykah - Interview 22
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Erykah was at work when she got a phone call to say that her brother had been shot. She rushed to the scene but all she could see was a covered body o
In 2002 Erykah’s brother was shot many times. His death was a terrible shock, and at first Erykah couldn’t believe it. Erykah’s faith keeps her strong. She has found support via the organisation, Mothers against Violence (MAV).
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