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Ann - Interview 24
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Ann pressed the coroner to get her son’s body released. She had to wait three months, which was distressing. They had a High Church service, and then
In 2005 Ann’s son, Westley, was murdered. He was attacked by a man with a knife. Ann and her family were devastated. Ann started the organisation KnifeCrimes.org which supports other victims of crime and which aims prevent other knife attacks.
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Dean - Interview 36
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The family had a Hindu ceremony at home, conducted by a local Hindu priest, followed by a service in the local crematorium. The manager of the cremato
Dean’s son, Andrew, was killed in 2006. He was hit by a car which was driven by a man who was not insured and who was driving illegally. Dean felt shocked and devastated. He has found help via friends, family, RoadPeace, the Spirualist Church and others.
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Jayne - Interview 07
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Jayne collected Jon’s ashes from the crematorium and took them to Italy by plane. She would not let them go until she had scattered them beside an oak
In 1992 Jayne’s husband, Jonathan Zito, was murdered by a man who had mental health problems. Jayne was shocked and traumatised. Since then she has had a great deal of counselling, which has been very helpful. She founded the Zito Trust.
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