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Tamsin - Interview 06
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Before the inquest the coroner’s officer showed them photos of the crash site, gave them the results of the post-mortem, explained who would be at the
One day in 2007 Tamsin said goodbye to her brother. That evening Matthew died when his motorbike collided with a car. Tamsin was devastated. Her partner and her family support her but she misses Matthew dreadfully and the pain doesn’t get any easier.
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Dorothy - Interview 28
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Dorothy and her family wanted to prepare for the inquest. The coroner charged them £566 for disclosure of evidence, but another coroner told her that
In 2005 Dorothy’s son, Mark, was killed in an industrial incident. He was working in a waste and recycling plant. Dorothy was shocked and angry. Counselling, hypnotherapy and Compassionate Friends have helped.
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Susanna - Interview 17
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The inquest for those killed by the Bali bomb was held about nine months later. During the inquest Susanna found out exactly what had killed her broth
Susanna lost her brother in the terrorist bombings in Bali on 12th October 2002. Dan was killed instantly and his wife was badly burnt. With other bereaved relatives she started the UK Bali Bombing Victims Group.
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Lost a parent
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Karen - Interview 04
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Karen felt that the inquest was a waste of time and a waste of taxpayers’ money. It did not answer important questions; she did not want to ask any qu
In 2007 Karen’s mother died when her house caught fire. It is unclear how the fire started, but the coroner decided it was an accidental death. Karen was shocked by her mother’s death. She has been helped and supported by her husband and his family.
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Rosemary - Interview 25
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After a mass disaster Rosemary says that the police must remember that individuals are involved. She thinks that a coroner should send a family the po
Rosemary’s son, James, was killed in the 7th July bomb attack in London in 2005. The family was devastated. Rosemary found help via family, friends, and colleagues, and through a vicar and a psychotherapist, and by creating wonderful memorials for her son.
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Ann - Interview 24
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Ann pressed the coroner to get her son’s body released. She had to wait three months, which was distressing. They had a High Church service, and then
In 2005 Ann’s son, Westley, was murdered. He was attacked by a man with a knife. Ann and her family were devastated. Ann started the organisation KnifeCrimes.org which supports other victims of crime and which aims prevent other knife attacks.
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Lost a husband, wife or partner
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Martin - Interview 10
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After Steph was hit by a bus the inquest was adjourned. The driver was charged with causing death by dangerous driving, but the case collapsed. Martin
Martin’s wife had a part time job as a lollypop lady. When she was standing on the pavement, she was hit by a bus, and died instantly. Martin was shocked. He is bringing up two children, which is a heavy responsibility. Counselling has helped him.
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Pat - Interview 05
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The coroner’s officer explained why a post-mortem was necessary. She answered Pat's questions, and later took a statement about Matthew and about his
In 2007 Pat’s son, Matthew, was killed when his motorbike hit a car that was turning right. The coroner concluded that it had been an accident. Pat was devastated. She has found support from family, friends, and through Cruse Bereavement Care.
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Alison - Interview 23
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Alison was allowed to go to the police station to see the statements and other documents that had been collected for the inquest. She wanted to be wel
In 2007 Alison’s husband and two of her young children died in their own home. Alison believes that her husband murdered her children and then set fire to the house. He also died. It has been a terrible time.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a brother or a sister
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Tamsin - Interview 06
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Before the inquest the coroner’s officer showed them photos of the crash site, gave them the results of the post-mortem, explained who would be at the
One day in 2007 Tamsin said goodbye to her brother. That evening Matthew died when his motorbike collided with a car. Tamsin was devastated. Her partner and her family support her but she misses Matthew dreadfully and the pain doesn’t get any easier.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a parent
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Karen - Interview 04
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Karen felt that the inquest was a waste of time and a waste of taxpayers’ money. It did not answer important questions; she did not want to ask any qu
In 2007 Karen’s mother died when her house caught fire. It is unclear how the fire started, but the coroner decided it was an accidental death. Karen was shocked by her mother’s death. She has been helped and supported by her husband and his family.
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The coroner’s inquest
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The coroner’s inquest
The coroner’s inquest
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The coroner’s inquest
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The coroner’s inquest
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Identifying the body
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Identifying the body
Identifying the body
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Lost a brother or a sister
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Tamsin - Interview 06
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Before the inquest the coroner’s officer showed them photos of the crash site, gave them the results of the post-mortem, explained who would be at the
One day in 2007 Tamsin said goodbye to her brother. That evening Matthew died when his motorbike collided with a car. Tamsin was devastated. Her partner and her family support her but she misses Matthew dreadfully and the pain doesn’t get any easier.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a child
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Pat - Interview 05
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The coroner’s officer explained why a post-mortem was necessary. She answered Pat's questions, and later took a statement about Matthew and about his
In 2007 Pat’s son, Matthew, was killed when his motorbike hit a car that was turning right. The coroner concluded that it had been an accident. Pat was devastated. She has found support from family, friends, and through Cruse Bereavement Care.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Viewing the body
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Viewing the body
Viewing the body
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a child
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Alison - Interview 23
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Alison was allowed to go to the police station to see the statements and other documents that had been collected for the inquest. She wanted to be wel
In 2007 Alison’s husband and two of her young children died in their own home. Alison believes that her husband murdered her children and then set fire to the house. He also died. It has been a terrible time.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a husband, wife or partner
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Martin - Interview 10
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After Steph was hit by a bus the inquest was adjourned. The driver was charged with causing death by dangerous driving, but the case collapsed. Martin
Martin’s wife had a part time job as a lollypop lady. When she was standing on the pavement, she was hit by a bus, and died instantly. Martin was shocked. He is bringing up two children, which is a heavy responsibility. Counselling has helped him.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to traumatic death
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Lost a parent
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Karen - Interview 04
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Karen felt that the inquest was a waste of time and a waste of taxpayers’ money. It did not answer important questions; she did not want to ask any qu
In 2007 Karen’s mother died when her house caught fire. It is unclear how the fire started, but the coroner decided it was an accidental death. Karen was shocked by her mother’s death. She has been helped and supported by her husband and his family.
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