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Martin - Interview 10
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Martin considered suicide. His GP arranged for NHS emergency counselling. Later, the bus company involved in the civil case paid for some Cognitive Be
Martin’s wife had a part time job as a lollypop lady. When she was standing on the pavement, she was hit by a bus, and died instantly. Martin was shocked. He is bringing up two children, which is a heavy responsibility. Counselling has helped him.
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Terri - Interview 19
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Terri saw a bereavement counsellor for 12 weeks. The CBT and visualisation helped her to cope better. The therapist listened to her, guided her and he
In 2003 Terri’s son was stabbed to death in his home. His grandmother was attacked too. Three men were involved in the attacks. Terri was away. News of her son’s death was very traumatic. Counselling, Compassionate Friends, family and friends have helped.
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Nina - Interview 37
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Nina got most help and support from family and friends. She went to see a psychotherapist but decided she was wasting the therapist’s time.
In 2002 Nina’s husband, Austen, was killed in the Potters Bar rail crash. She was seriously hurt. Nina campaigned for compensation for the families of those who died. Nina misses her husband. She wrote the book “Dear Austen” to tell him what happened.
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