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Cynthia - Interview 02
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Two policemen told Cynthia that her daughter had been killed. She was in a terrible state of shock and could not believe what they said to her.
In 2000 Cynthia’s 26 year old daughter was killed when she was knocked off her bicycle and run over by a lorry. The inquest verdict was “accidental death” and the driver was acquitted. Cynthia was devastated and now campaigns to prevent other road deaths.
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Elizabeth - Interview 16
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More than two years after her daughter’s death Elizabeth still felt weighed down by grief. She believed it was a terrible accident and blamed no-one f
In 2006 Elizabeth’s daughter, Marni, was killed when her car veered across the road and crashed into a lorry. The accident may have happened because Marni had a medical condition. Her death was a terrible shock. Elizabeth was devastated.
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Dorothy - Interview 28
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After Mark died in a workplace incident Dorothy found a few journalists who helped publicise her campaign to change the law to make directors accounta
In 2005 Dorothy’s son, Mark, was killed in an industrial incident. He was working in a waste and recycling plant. Dorothy was shocked and angry. Counselling, hypnotherapy and Compassionate Friends have helped.
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Tamsin - Interview 06
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Tamsin heard about her brother’s motorbike accident from her father. The police drove her to the hospital to see Matthew. Losing her brother was painf
One day in 2007 Tamsin said goodbye to her brother. That evening Matthew died when his motorbike collided with a car. Tamsin was devastated. Her partner and her family support her but she misses Matthew dreadfully and the pain doesn’t get any easier.
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Pat - Interview 05
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Pat was devastated when two policemen arrived at her house and told her that her son, Matthew, had been involved in an accident and had died. She coul
In 2007 Pat’s son, Matthew, was killed when his motorbike hit a car that was turning right. The coroner concluded that it had been an accident. Pat was devastated. She has found support from family, friends, and through Cruse Bereavement Care.
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Godfrey - Interview 39
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Godfrey went to the hospital as soon as he heard that Adrian had had an accident. He could hardly believe his son was dying. He and his wife decided t
In 1995 Godfrey’s son was fatally injured as he tried to board a train. Godfrey was denied information about exactly what had happened. The jury at the inquest decided it was an accident. It was an awful tragedy but Godfrey still has a positive attitude.
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