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Ian - Interview 32
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Ian joined a Catholic support group for men. For the first time he felt that he could cry and share all his emotions and that he did not have to be st
In 1999 Ian’s brother, Dorrie, was shot. He died soon afterwards. Ian was deeply shocked but he supported the rest of the family and kept his faith in God. Dorrie’s death made Ian reassess his life, and live not only for himself but also for Dorrie.
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Rosemary - Interview 25
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Soon after her son died in the London bombing in 2005 Rosemary went to see her local vicar. He was very supportive and helped her find a reason for li
Rosemary’s son, James, was killed in the 7th July bomb attack in London in 2005. The family was devastated. Rosemary found help via family, friends, and colleagues, and through a vicar and a psychotherapist, and by creating wonderful memorials for her son.
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Patsy - Interview 21
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When Patsy’s son died she turned to God for help, and prayer became her companion.
In 1999 Patsy’s son, Dorrie, was shot. He died soon afterwards. Patsy was devastated, but through her belief in Jesus, her relationship with God, her work with Mothers Against Violence and other community work she has come to terms with Dorrie’s death.
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Ian - Interview 32
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Before his brother was shot, Ian thought that faith protected his family, but his faith in God has deepened since the death.
In 1999 Ian’s brother, Dorrie, was shot. He died soon afterwards. Ian was deeply shocked but he supported the rest of the family and kept his faith in God. Dorrie’s death made Ian reassess his life, and live not only for himself but also for Dorrie.
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Angela - Interview 11
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Angela’s strong faith in God helped her to put life and death into perspective. Her belief that God was there for her 24 hours a day helped with her g
Angela lost a cousin and a friend during 2008. Her cousin was killed with a machete and her friend was stabbed. These deaths have been very painful for Angela. Her faith in God has helped her. She gains strength by working for Mothers against Violence.
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Cynthia - Interview 02
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Cynthia has no religious beliefs herself but recognises that other people may get comfort from their beliefs.
In 2000 Cynthia’s 26 year old daughter was killed when she was knocked off her bicycle and run over by a lorry. The inquest verdict was “accidental death” and the driver was acquitted. Cynthia was devastated and now campaigns to prevent other road deaths.
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Angela - Interview 11
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Angela said that if she hadn’t worked hard for Mothers Against Violence she wouldn’t be happy. She feels she is doing God’s will and has helped to cha
Angela lost a cousin and a friend during 2008. Her cousin was killed with a machete and her friend was stabbed. These deaths have been very painful for Angela. Her faith in God has helped her. She gains strength by working for Mothers against Violence.
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