I’ve got online memorial sites for them, which I find very helpful, although distressing when people don’t write something on there or light a virtual candle. I think they’re forgetting them.
Is that on a particular site, like ‘Gone too soon’?
Yes.
Or something like that?
They’re on ‘Gone too soon’ but they’re also on ‘Memory of’ dot com. And that’s, that’s nice, you know. My mum and I are the ones mainly who post on there…
But every now and then some, for example my friends on their birthdays there’ll be a candle from them. And that means a lot. It is my horror that my kids will be forgotten.
Have you got any other memorial? You’ve got the online memorials. Did you have any memorial, at the churchyard?
Oh, at the school they, they attend, well, one attended and the other one was due to attend, they asked the kids what they wanted to do and they’ve they decided on the Rainbow Garden.
Oh.
So the theme is rainbow, butterflies and sunflowers.
And the kids have designed the garden, we’ve raised loads of money for it. And it’s going to be an outdoor teaching area for them. It’s also a, a place for them to go and remember. And the kids do remember.
That’s really nice.
You know, whenever I got here they’re all over me. They did a lovely service for them.
It was heartbreaking to see the, how much the kids were affected…
