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Seeing the body or not being able to do so
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Practical matters
The funeral, inquest, burial or cremation :
The funeral or commemoration
Burying the body or scattering or burying ashes
The headstone or other memorial
The inquest
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Informal support - Family and friends
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Coping with grief and keeping memories alive
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Life now and a message to others :
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Stephen - Interview 31
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Stephen appreciated help with practical matters. His brother acted as his secretary, and friends came round with food for him and his daughters.
In June 2006 Stephen returned home to find his wife, Gill, hanging in the hallway. She had been diagnosed with severe depression. Stephen found help from family, friends & Cruse. His daughters have been helped by the Charity, See Saw.
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Alex - Interview 3
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Alex found that almost all organisations were efficient and sensitive, but one company failed to reply to letters. Eventually the Chairman sent a repl
Felicity and Alex had a daughter, Alice, who diagnosed with depression and then bipolar disorder. In 2004, aged 22, she killed herself. Alex felt that the role he took supporting others helped him to cope with the “fearful shock” of her suicide.
Dying & bereavement
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Jacqui - Interview 30
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Jacqui found the insurance companies very frustrating. Some officials asked to speak to the policy holder even though she had told them that Mike had
Jacqui’s husband, Mike, had had mental health problems for some time. In 2006 Jacqui came home to find that Mike had died by suicide. He had hung himself. Jacqui has had counselling and has started her own email support group, Widowed by Suicide Support.
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Bob - Interview 17
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After Bob’s son died the insurance company refused to pay to bring him home or to bring his car back from France because the policy had a clause that
In 1998 Bob’s son, Darren, died while on holiday in France. He died by hanging and the French police were sure it was suicide. Bob and his wife were shocked. They have found support via Compassionate Friends, SOBS and the internet group Parents of Suicide.
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