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Arthur - Interview 27
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Arthur followed the ambulance to the hospital, where a doctor told him that his son had died. Arthur saw Leon and was grateful when one of the nurses
Arthur’s son, Leon, had mental health problems. In 1991, Leon took his own life, in a fume filled car. This was a devastating shock to Arthur. Arthur helped to start the organisation, Papyrus, to try to prevent other young suicides.
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Susan - Interview 20
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Susan urges professionals to listen to patients with mental illness and their relatives. When patients are desperate for help they must be seen quickl
In 2005, Susan’s daughter, Rose, took her own life. She shot herself. Rose had had anorexia and then depression, and was later thought to have bipolar disorder. Susan feels angry because she believes that NHS psychiatric services were inadequate.
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Nina - Interview 11
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When Nina’s brother died in hospital the family was not offered support. Nina thinks survivors should be offered help automatically and given the numb
In 1999, Nina was shocked to hear that her brother, Joe, was in intensive care. He was aged 16. He had been found unconscious, hanging from a tree. He died three days later. Nina has found most support from friends, family, counsellors and SOBS.
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Barbara - Interview 23
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After her son left his hospital job none of his colleagues phoned to find out how he was feeling. Barbara wishes that someone from the hospital had ma
Barbara & Colin’s son, Matt, found his first job as a junior doctor very stressful. In 1992 Matt was found dead in a crashed car; probably due to suicide. He was aged 24. Colin & Barbara were devastated.
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Helen - Interview 6
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Helen says that sometimes her daughter had psychosis due to the illegal drugs she took and needed respite care but she was often discharged from hospi
Helen’s daughter, Charlotte, had mental health problems. When Charlotte was 30 she was found dead in her flat. She may have taken an overdose or may have taken her own life. Helen has been well supported. She also finds comfort by helping homeless people.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to suicide
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Lost a brother or sister
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Nina - Interview 11
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When Nina’s brother died in hospital the family was not offered support. Nina thinks survivors should be offered help automatically and given the numb
In 1999, Nina was shocked to hear that her brother, Joe, was in intensive care. He was aged 16. He had been found unconscious, hanging from a tree. He died three days later. Nina has found most support from friends, family, counsellors and SOBS.
Dying & bereavement
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Bereavement due to suicide
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Lost a partner, husband or wife
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Dolores - Interview 29
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Dolores had not been told how serious her husband’s injuries were before she arrived at the hospital, and she had to wait sometime before staff treati
Dolores’ husband, Steve, developed mental health problems soon after their baby was born. He fell from a bridge in 2005 and died soon afterwards. Dolores felt distraught and very sad. She has found help though a psychologist, and SOBS, and web sites.
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Arthur - Interview 27
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Arthur paid for his son to see a psychiatrist because the waiting list (in 1991) was 11 months. Having seen the specialist Leon was admitted to hospit
Arthur’s son, Leon, had mental health problems. In 1991, Leon took his own life, in a fume filled car. This was a devastating shock to Arthur. Arthur helped to start the organisation, Papyrus, to try to prevent other young suicides.
Dying & bereavement
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Lost a child
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Susan - Interview 8
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Susan had not been told about changes that might predict that Stephen would take his own life. She is angry that he had access to illegal drugs while
Two of Susan’s sons have taken their own lives by hanging. Barry died in 1995 and Stephen died in April 2006. Susan has had support from various sources. She is still grieving but feels she must “move on” for the sake of her other children.
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