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Alex - Interview 3
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Alex and Felicity realised that a death by suicide in the family might weaken family bonds. Alex says he is delighted by the family solidarity after A
Felicity and Alex had a daughter, Alice, who diagnosed with depression and then bipolar disorder. In 2004, aged 22, she killed herself. Alex felt that the role he took supporting others helped him to cope with the “fearful shock” of her suicide.
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Bob - Interview 17
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After their son died Bob and Lynda decided to support each other in their grief. They were determined not to let his suicide tear them apart.
In 1998 Bob’s son, Darren, died while on holiday in France. He died by hanging and the French police were sure it was suicide. Bob and his wife were shocked. They have found support via Compassionate Friends, SOBS and the internet group Parents of Suicide.
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Nina - Interview 11
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Family members supported each other and ‘just gelled together’ when Joe was dying in hospital.
In 1999, Nina was shocked to hear that her brother, Joe, was in intensive care. He was aged 16. He had been found unconscious, hanging from a tree. He died three days later. Nina has found most support from friends, family, counsellors and SOBS.
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Lucy - Interview 38
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The families had disagreements before Darrell died but his death made people stop and conclude that nothing was to be gained from arguing.
Lucy’s partner, Darrell, committed suicide in 2005. He drove his car in front of a train. He had been depressed but his suicide was a complete shock to Lucy. She has found support through family and friends and via an online group, Widowed by Suicide.
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Dave - Interview 34
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Dave’s relationship with his surviving son was great but not ‘easy’. It was no longer a ‘thoughtless relationship.’ Dave has to think carefully before
Dave’s son, Ben, was aged 21 when he developed mental health problems. In 2003 Ben took his own life by crashing his car. Dave was devastated. He has found some help for his grief by seeing a psychiatrist and by going to Compassionate Friends.
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Susan - Interview 8
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Susan and her husband still find it hard to talk about Barry and Stephen. Susan says that she understands why some marriages break up after someone in
Two of Susan’s sons have taken their own lives by hanging. Barry died in 1995 and Stephen died in April 2006. Susan has had support from various sources. She is still grieving but feels she must “move on” for the sake of her other children.
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