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Felicity - Interview 2
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Felicity thinks it was unforgivable that her daughter, Alice, was discharged from psychiatric care without a follow-up appointment.
Felicity and Alex had a daughter, Alice. She had depression as a teenager, and was eventually diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In 2004, at the age of 22, she took her own life. Felicity has found support from family, friends, her GP and Cruse.
Dying & bereavement
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Lost a partner, husband or wife
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Stephen - Interview 31
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Stephen believes that many GPs lack knowledge about how to deal with depression and how to deal with a person who might be suicidal.
In June 2006 Stephen returned home to find his wife, Gill, hanging in the hallway. She had been diagnosed with severe depression. Stephen found help from family, friends & Cruse. His daughters have been helped by the Charity, See Saw.
Dying & bereavement
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Lost a brother or sister
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Steve - Interview 25
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Steve complained to the Chief Executive of the Community Mental Health trust. He wanted to know why his sister had been discharged without adequate fo
Steve’s sister took her own life in 2006. She stepped in front of a train. She had had mental health problems for many years but was not receiving the care she needed at the time of her death. Steve was devastated. He has found most support from SOBS.
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Dave - Interview 34
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After Dave’s son died in 2003 he and his wife wished they had been more involved in his care. They were also angry that he was discharged from hospita
Dave’s son, Ben, was aged 21 when he developed mental health problems. In 2003 Ben took his own life by crashing his car. Dave was devastated. He has found some help for his grief by seeing a psychiatrist and by going to Compassionate Friends.
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Susan - Interview 8
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Susan had not been told about changes that might predict that Stephen would take his own life. She is angry that he had access to illegal drugs while
Two of Susan’s sons have taken their own lives by hanging. Barry died in 1995 and Stephen died in April 2006. Susan has had support from various sources. She is still grieving but feels she must “move on” for the sake of her other children.
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Helen - Interview 6
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Helen points out that many people with ‘drug problems’ end up with psychiatric problems. She thinks the different professional teams should work toget
Helen’s daughter, Charlotte, had mental health problems. When Charlotte was 30 she was found dead in her flat. She may have taken an overdose or may have taken her own life. Helen has been well supported. She also finds comfort by helping homeless people.
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