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Coping with grief and keeping memories alive
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Adjusting to life without the person who died
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Felicity - Interview 2
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Christmas without Alice was hard for the family. Felicity filled the house with flowers and candles and during the meal they talked especially about A
Felicity and Alex had a daughter, Alice. She had depression as a teenager, and was eventually diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In 2004, at the age of 22, she took her own life. Felicity has found support from family, friends, her GP and Cruse.
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Bob - Interview 17
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Bob and Lynda always stamp a butterfly and write Darren’s name onto every card they send out. They want to keep Darren’s memory alive.
In 1998 Bob’s son, Darren, died while on holiday in France. He died by hanging and the French police were sure it was suicide. Bob and his wife were shocked. They have found support via Compassionate Friends, SOBS and the internet group Parents of Suicide.
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Brenda - Interview 12
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Brenda’s son died just before Christmas, so the first Christmas and New Year were very difficult. Mother’s day and Father’s day are hurdles to get ove
In 2005 Brenda’s 21-year-old son sadly died in ICU. He had been depressed for some time and had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Now Brenda focuses as much as she can on remembering the good memories they all shared as a family.
Dying & bereavement
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Lost a partner, husband or wife
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Dolores - Interview 29
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Dolores finds anniversaries difficult and she thinks that Christmas is horrendous because it implies a situation so unlike her own. She visits the chu
Dolores’ husband, Steve, developed mental health problems soon after their baby was born. He fell from a bridge in 2005 and died soon afterwards. Dolores felt distraught and very sad. She has found help though a psychologist, and SOBS, and web sites.
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Lucreta - Interview 39
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The weeks before Christmas are difficult weeks for Lucreta. She grieves for her daughter when others are shopping and exchanging cards. All family occ
In 1996, Lucreta’s daughter, Dionne (also called Dominique), jumped to her death. She was 18 when she died. Lucreta had no idea that Dionne had been so unhappy, and was shocked by her death. Lucreta has found support from friends, her church, her GP, and counsellors.
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